How magical the above mentioned words are… the words which fill your silent and flat life with wonderful warmth and fragrance. You would certainly be happy if all these words are saidby you for someone or if someone says for a kind personalitylike you.

This relationship based on a healthy approach and behavior, either the acknowledgement of one’s kindness or an expression of thankfulness is a piece of good fortune for anyone.

The thing is that due to the everyday tedious engagements, we cannot give time to our companions and friends, give excuses of being occupied and sometimes it’s not a lie but we truly are entangled in the accomplishment of some projectsor running to achieve our aims and the time passes away like sand from afist. If someone calls or gives reference of old fellowship and puts moral effort to maintain the old relation, there is no harm in it.Live for your own selffor a few moments, have a cup of coffee or tea together, ask about each other’s wellbeing, talk about career and domestic engagements. There is no end to such talks but it helps to get away from the dullness of life. You may be a successful person but you also need some tonic to get refreshed. In husband wife relationship both cannot bear indifference and unfriendliness with each other. Do not let the relationship become dull and dry. Try to make your relationship pleasant on individual level. Tell your partner how important we are for each other, that he means a lot for you. Do not only say this but you have to do something practically to prove it.For instance, if wiveslearn to take care of their husbands’ minor needs it can help to maintain amazing mental and emotional harmony.

Did you check your husband’s wardrobe today? Which dress is he wearing for office today? If he selects his dresses himself, are they washed and pressed? If someone’s husband is fond of pan, she should wash the stains carefully otherwise such stains on shirts open the secrets of her expertness. Sophistication, cleanliness and efficiency, these three attributes are sufficient to bring the most unconcerned, careless and extremely busy husband closer to a wife. Do you possess these qualities in your personality?

For maintaining the best mental harmony, it is essential that you and your husband have similar views, your chemistry match with each other. By just paying a little attention, you can also attain this difficult but heart winning goodness.

The poet expects that whatever his feelings are, should reach to his beloved quickly and automatically but even if you do not agree with it, at leastyou should try to know each other by likes and dislikes, priorities, behavior and habits. When and what should you talk, how should you express your views and how much should you hide, why should your manner of speaking be polite and decent, which thing or behavior may provoke the temperament, where is it important to be clear and decisive and when should you give time to each other for thinking. Are you aware of each other’s issues, activities and fatigues of life?

Why is selflessness so significant in the relations?

If the question is not above your understanding it means that the origin of your ideas and behavior is sound and positive. For selflessness, it is necessary to avoid continuous argument, stubbornness and willfulness. Avoid making your home a battle field especially considering the great rush of traffic and the embarrassment and anguish of not reaching somewhere on time for home is the only safe and secure place where an exhausted and worn out person comes back after the whole day for relief and comfort. To create an atmosphere of love, peace and satisfaction is a part of your moral responsibility. Many questions may arise in your mind regarding your husband’s changed behavior, but asking everything every time is not that important. Control your anger if he comes home late and wait as he himself will tell you the reason of his being late. Why are you examining him like a police officer? Do you think this is how he would tell you the right thing?This may offend him and make him say something very bad for which you do not have patience to tolerate. So remain silent and wait for the proper time to ask.

The habit of unreasonable opposition and investigation are part of the things which irritate husbands. Men are not wrong if they declare such wives to be skeptical. Why weren’t you receiving my call? It’s such a question whichcan makethe other person feel uncomfortable without a reason. If we considerthe panic and access of work in the office a husband is not so cruel, in the offices where there is a lot of work pressure and no flexibility in working hours; sometimes it is not possible to receive the phone calls. If you understand the nature of your husband’s job, you would never ask such questions.

If you have to ask for something, if there is some problem that you want to discuss or you need his support or money for daily expenses, talk to him in the night, he would reply with patience. Talk to him softly and politely, of course your husband understands the meaning of love, he would also respond cordially.

Who is not sensitive? Every living being is sensitive and emotional. You and your husband live together, although the skill of being sensitive for each other is very difficult but try and achieve the target of success.

There is nobody in the world who does not want attention, even your pet cat who cannot speak tells you through its styles and actions that either it wants your attention or it is hungry; do you not put everything aside at that moment and feed your cat? You don’t scold it, in the same way husbands do not like the wives who are always unwelcoming…so, it is important to develop a habit of being calm and patient so that you can understand what your husband wants at what time and how can you take care of him.