Readers! Receiving daily-visitors, letters and troubled unusual stories teach me lessons of life and precautions. I pass those lessons and precautions to you considering them an amanat as you understand my pain and listen to me. Personal issues reach me in such a way that people die and take those secrets in their hearts to the grave as those are family’sand domestic secrets and are not revealed on anyone. This is why, although the society is alert about them but just little. Sharaiparda i.e. to veil from certain relatives or strangers is not a limitation but protection. Since time has started considering it a limitation and everyone has become frank; people started creating relations of fake brothers and sisters. These words have weakened the roots of the society. I am sharing a summarized letter and would request you to please make yourself observant and punctual of SharaiPardah. It is an important part of ceasing great riots and plagues in the society. I have witnessed divorces, murders, suicides, fights, riots and even breaking of relations due to not practicing sharia parda. When you will pay attention to the society, then you will authenticate me that my observations are the bitter reality. The letter said, “Hakeem Sb. When I got married, my husband’s nephews were very young. I was very frank with them as my habit issociable with people. With the passage of time, they crossed puberty but our relation did not change. I noticed some change in the behavior of the eldest nephew. I stayed quiet & considered it my doubt. We caught him indulged in bad habits like drinking, gambling, drugs and relations with girls. I kept elucidating him. Sometimes he listened and understood. Whenever I sat with him, I felt a different feeling in his eyes and breathing which was new. Gradually, he started teasing me in a different way. I told about this indirectly to my husband but my husband also considered it to me my delusion as the boy was brought up in our hands; he was always ahead in serving us. This is the reason we could not even imagine that he could do such a thing. My husband stays away for 10-15 days for business concerns; these days were very difficult for me. In trying to get him rid of sins and come towards chaste life, I myself fell on the path of sin; which I had an idea about but I wasn’t sure. After one-session, my heart started staying worried; I stayed lost in his thoughts. As I live in a joint-family; I have my mother-in-law, sister-in-laws, that is why I have to think about my honor. If I speak up then an issue will start at home. What should I do now? I want to get rid of this sin now…. I am a female; I am alone in my room; how much strong can I be. I have broken many swears; how many time should I swear again. Can you help me? For God’s sake, take me out of this misery…..! Readers! Pardah is Sharai; do not consider it an imprisonment… Consider it a precaution… Then what is the result? It is the same which I have shared with you in the form of this summarized letter. This is not the plague of a single house, hundreds, or thousands but millions which fumes insides, extinguish and is then buried. But since when is the society falling apart; family traditions are finishing and the base is lack of SharaiParda and nothing else…!
