Spirit and soul: Hakeem Muhammad Tariq Mehmood Majzoobi Chughtai Phd America Editor of Ubqari: There is one desire for the whole life that I wish….! I may do the tawaf of house of Allah SWT, wear the ehraam and say Labbaik along with the Hajis….. then there are some such people also who gather each penny and go on Hajj. The hajj of a rich person and poor person can really not be equal. The price of the Haji who gathers each penny and near Allah SWT, how it can be same of a rich person? But the real thing after going there is to make the time precious. The babits of the ones who go on Hajj: The thing which has come in my observation many times it is this that very less people are able to make their time precious after going there. Otherwise most of them only keep on walking with the crowd in 5 days of Hajj. In the remaining time that same destruction, politics, poetry, sounds of markets, window shopings and this how by counting the days. At last that day comes that the weight of luggage is being done on the Jeddah airport. I saw one man myself that he is distributing dates. On asking I got to know that some of the shopping is of the material of China. The weight has got more and instead of this that he may leave China material over there, he left dates over there and then picked them up and started distributing them. I got mugged! During tawaf one lady asked the other lady that of how much price you got this cloth? When she told the rate so with much sadness the other lady took out one special voice and said that oh….. “I got mugged”! Every Hajj should be like the last Hajj: Readers! Hajj is only compulsory one time. How many Hajj will we do…. How many they are in the fate, we will do it for sure. But every Hajj should be like the last Hajj. There are few such things, if Haji will take care of them and I am doing this on the base of my continuous observations. Allah SWT takes me on Hajj with His power and mercy. I hope that my experiences will give you benefit. The one who are going on Hajj shall first gain benefit from my experiences: Take light luggage along with you. Do not take the list of shopping with you at all. The material which China gives to Saudi Arab, it is giving them same to Pakistan also. One time one friend of Lahore went to Hajj along with me and brought 3 mobile phones. All 3 of them were not working. When he went the next time so they refused to take it back by saying this that how we will give the heavy rents of the shops which are outside the Haram? Do not go on Hajj by taking the intention of comfort and peace at all and if you get peace anywhere so do thanks, and if you do not get peace and comfort so do not do complain, fight, quarrel, debate and dispute. Take care of your eyes over there, so the safety of the feeling which get arised in the heart. Uncovered women, one big source of ruining the Hajj of Hajjis: One grief is this that very good ladies who do veil, cover themselves and do hijab, they finish their hijab after going there and if it is said also so they say that we are brothers and sisters. Hajj is the days of more worship and taking care. One should take care of hijab in them more. Do remember! If the Hajj of countless Hajjis gets ruined due to uncovered lady so on the Day of Judgment, she will give answer to how many Hajjis and Hajji will do demand in front of Allah SWT that O Allah SWT! This lady did not take care of her hijab and due to her my eyes kept on doing stealing and the noor which I got due to parts of Hajj, this lady stole it all. I remember one thing of many years before that outside every Pakistani building, one advertisement was hanged from government then kept on giving abayass really. It was written in that advertisement that how many people come for doing Hajj from whole world, among them the women of Pakistan are the ones who take care of their hijab very less that is why the women of Pakistan shall take much care of their hijab and hidden areas. I felt very embarrassed and sad by reading this advertisement and I felt like this that the Hujjaj from whole world have come to Saudi Arab, this advertisement really disgrace. Do not use the thing of anyone without permission: One more prevention which is necessary for us to do is that do not use the thing of anyone without permission at all, do not spend money uselessly but where there is the opportunity to spend on residency and food so do spend over there. Readers! Every day Hajj is not done: Do prevent being informal, laughing, standing of men and women together, prevent from all these things. Someone asked from one man of Allah SWT that first when Hajji used to go so they used to come after changing from head to feet. Now why do not they get changed? He said: First of all they do not do the intention, they do the intention of shopping and enjoyment and the second thing is this that they do not do effort on themselves after going there and the third thing is this that the evil has arranged the markets of shopping outside the Haram. They become so tired by roaming in those markets that they do not get opportunity of doing worship by sitting in Haram and to check their own soul. During my tour, one Hajji of Lahore became my companion of room. He was old. For his whole life, he had desire of doing Hajj. Whenever his phone used to rang, which used to rang very often, so he had kept the ring tone of music which used to ring in very loud voice, the sleep used to be very deep. The ring tone used to ring for long time. Either he used to pick it up himself or others used to make him remember. Once upon a time I said that if you do some mercy so change this ring tone and apply a simple ring tone. He did like this. After 2 to 3 days that same ring tone rang music so I asked: Hajji Sir, did not that ring tone get change? He said: I just like it. I have applied it again. I became silent and got patient very difficulty. Readers! Hajj is not done everyday and if it is done also, so how many you will do it? Make your Hajj precious: But it is my request that make your Hajj precious and each and every moment of your Hajj in which Allah SWT should do mercy and He should feel pity and our life may get changed and people may feel that it is said as Hajji and last and important thing….. do not write Hajji along with your name, neither say, nor get it called, do not get it written to, do not get it said even. If someone writes or say so stop him with love that this is not my name. if he says also that did not you do hajj? So make it clear to him that I have not performed it to be called as Hajji. I have performed it to get the reward of it from Allah SWT. It may not happen that on the Day of Judgment Allah SWT would say it to me that you did it to be called as Hajji, you made people call you Hajjan. Take the reward also from them today. That is why get rid from the word Hajji and al-Hajh.