The effect of parents is upon their children. Whether they are manners, illness, style, temperament, so much so that worship, piety, good deeds, bad deeds, filth, evil nature, dirt, all of these things are transferred generation after generation. Either the generations are developed or they are ruined. Please try to get an idea with a small incident. A doctor said about his maid: She was a worst scold. She would speak badly and nobody could dare to speak. If she would not find a human being, then animals, house, walls, and trees and if she had nothing in front of her, she would put a glass or utensils in front of her and curse them. She would cast aspersions upon them. Sometimes she would use a bad language. This was her permanent behavior. Once her master got tired of it and said: After all how can this habit of yours be finished? So for the first time she said innocently. Master it is not my fault! This affair has to do with my father, grandfather, mother and their elders. They were of this temperament and nature. And this nature and temperament has shifted towards us, and we shall always live with this nature. At last, he kept quiet.
Used to Put Leg upon Leg, Sleep Upside Down and Laugh Like That
Sometimes no manners are transferred to generations. Rather there is something behind it. Once upon a time, I saw a person. The way he cracked a laughter; I saw a similar style of their father. A person had the habit of sleeping while lying on his belly. Until the time he would not lie down like that and would not put one leg over the other, he could not sleep. And he would not feel even drowsy till then. He himself said. I saw my father like this. I saw my grandfather like this. And I heard the same about my great grandfather. He used to spend his life like this, meaning they used to sleep on their bellies.
Please Believe! The Effect of Our Temperament, Manners and Personality is on Generations Too
Please believe! Where our personality, manners and temperament our lives, there its effects are on our generations too. And not only a generation, rather generation after generation, this our habit or worship, style or temperament are transferred to generations. Never ever, a habit is your personal. It is not bound to you. All of these habits are transferring to your generations. Our job is to try and to function ourselves with care. So much so that the dulling of the color of body, development of stains on it, to be lame, squinted, blind, speechless, deaf, having a chopped lip, having six finger in a hand, use of the left hand, all of these things, if they are in your children then please believe! Do not consider them to be confined to you. Rather they are transferred to you from previous generations. And they are not confined to you rather they can be transferred to your next generations, and often they do.
People of This Family Become Mad After Forty Years!
There is a problem in a family; they become mad after forty years. The effect of madness is transferred to their next generations. They are not alone, rather they develop an expectation about this affair before that they shall not be mad alone, rather their next generations shall be mad too. Because till now madness is being transferred to their next generations. And they believe that it will be transferred to the next generations too.
These Are Realities That We Cannot Deny
These are realities and we cannot deny them. The temperament of generations, their mannerisms, behaviors do not remain confined to these generations, rather they are transferred to next generations. How can you save your generations from bad habits, painful illnesses, difficulties and problems? The only solution to this is that we adapt our temperament, behavior and habits to a correct state and truthfulness. Our true nature, true body, true emotions, true thoughts, and true character shall be converted to next generations definitely and completely. We should never think that what we have shall remain with us.
Forget This! That if You Are Bad Then the Generation Shall be Good
If we are bad then our generations shall be good, this is a big mistake to think on our part. Because our moment-by-moment thoughts, blinking of the eye, movement of the body, tendency of the behavior, whether it is towards goodness or evil. All of this transfers to our generations and on our future. Come! Let’s take our steps by being careful and spend the days and nights carefully. And this is also true that your bad habits are not known to your generations, your wife but facts are facts
