This page is dedicated to daily domestic issues and personal questions of women. Women must share their unique incidents and personal experiences. Pen down neatly on one side of the paper. No matter how casual it is.

I have to make ubtan:

 I have chaiyaan* on my face. There's one ubtan available but it's expensive. I can't afford. I need a recipe to make ubtan, and there must not be a side effect of it, too.

Suggestion:  After child birth, chaiyaan* are common due to internal issues in the body. Take half a cup of chick-pea powder and soak it in 1 cup of milk. Soak it at night and blend in the morning. Then add lemon juice if one lemon and place it in fridge. Take on spoon of lentils, add a little milk and oil and put it. Now add that blended creamy thing into this and apply it on your face. Cleanse and remove after five minutes. Apply aloe Vera on your face before going to sleep. They will vanish!

How can I possess the love of Allah?

I'm 18 years. I read a few Islamic books few days back. Reading about he'll frightened me. Read about the greatness of Allah and felt like devoting myself to Him and love Him; may be this'd save me from the fire of hell. I am always scared now and can't even read. I suggest you all to advice me how I can find the true love of Allah and save myself from hell fire.

Suggestion: Allah is kind and merciful. This is what happens when people don't get good books or preaching in this age. Start reading  Qur'an in a detail and with translation. Pray five times a day. Recite Qur'an. Obey parents. This us what newly turned adult boys and for think in this age. Immature minds are affected by books. Recite Qur'an and you'll understand slowly and steadily. Take interest in your studies. Parents should keep books which illuminate the mind of the kids, in their homes. Recite Qur'an regularly it's the word of Allah. You'll realize His mightiness through it and that is how you will fall in love with HIM.

Irregular nails:

Girls grow nails and then apply nail paint on them. My nails are ugly and irregular. They don't even grow. Small and irregular nails, I don't like them that way. I'm 18 years. I need a tip for long healthy beautiful nails so that I can also apply nail paint on them.

Suggestion: nails keep on growing. It may be that there is some disease in your nails and what's the use of nailpaints? You can't offer namaz then and no ablution. Buy henna leave and crush the leave s yourself. One spoon of henna mixed with one spoon of Brown vinegar; apply it on nails for an hour daily. And apply aloe Vera on nails every night. Do it for two months. Garlic must be available at your place?  2-3 cloves of garlic, after removing the skin and add it in water. Put your hands in that water for five minutes, once in a week. Your nails will get better Insha’Allah.

Nausea:

 I suffer from nausea often. My head moves in circles. I don't want to take any medicine. Kindly give me a useful tip. (Shahina)

Suggestion: take one bunch of mint leaves add three big spoon pomegranate seeds, one spoon, white zera and 4 green chillies mix to make chutni sauce and a little salt and sugar in it. Take it before meal morning and evening and after it eat a spoon of fennel, eat it for 10-15 days.

Support in critical moments:

2 years back I had a letter of 2 pages, written by a hopeless, courageless, cowardly girl. She had given F.SC exam paper and wanted to get her number increased. I was upset to read her letter, I could not do any thing except prayers supplication. I answered her and prayed muself and ask others to pray for her. One day her I attended her phone call she asked me whether I have increased her number or not, I explained with love but she was crying and I did not forget her hopeless voice ans she disconnected the phone. For few days I was too much upset for that girl and I prayed  a lot to Allah Almighty that she will get good marks in her test. After 2 years again I got her letter, she passed her exam with flying colours surprisingly, now she is doing her B.A. she wrote that I can not express my feelings and thankful is not a word to express my feelings because at that time you support me when everyone left me even I was away from myself. Her letter is in front of me and I am truly very happy and Allah Almighty fulfil my supplication and those also who prayed for her. If anyone is hopeless even from Allah and think to do suicide and someone at that time support him, he will be safe from this situation. Once a young girl called me, she had a gun in her hand, she shoot and show me the voice of gun and said “I am going to do suicide because now I can not bear these entire financial crisis”. I said gun is in your hand just listen me for 5 minutes, I said those who are coward they did suicide and after death where you will be going? What you will give answer in front of Allah Almighty, you are hopeless from Allah Almighty and doing suicide, she listened to me and put the phone. After a month she wrote thanks letter. On the same day one of her friend gave her a good job, Alhamdolillah her financial problem has been solved. I was happy to read her letter.